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My Husband Has a Porn Addiction. How Do I Fix Our Sexless Marriage?
When women come to me and say, “My husband has a porn addiction, and our marriage has become sexless,” they rarely sound angry. They sound tired. Often, their voice lowers when they say it. Not because anyone asked them to whisper, but because years of quiet rejection have taught them to speak carefully, as if wanting intimacy itself might be unreasonable. Most are not asking how to fix their husband.They are asking something much more personal. Is this about me? Did I stop b
Rishabh Bhola
1 day ago


I Can Get Hard When Alone but Not With My Partner
If you can get an erection easily when you are alone but struggle to stay hard with your partner, you are not broken. You are not weak. And in most cases, you are not physically ill. This is one of the most common yet misunderstood sexual concerns seen in young and middle-aged men today. Many men silently panic because their body works during masturbation but seems to fail during real sex. That confusion often leads to fear, avoidance, and worsening performance. What Does It
Rishabh Bhola
3 days ago


Early Signs Someone May Cheat in the Future
Early signs someone may cheat in the future are usually rooted in long-standing emotional and behavioral patterns rather than sudden temptation. These include chronic need for external validation, weak emotional boundaries, entitlement in relationships, avoidance of accountability, difficulty tolerating emotional discomfort, and secrecy. Infidelity is rarely accidental and more often develops from predictable psychological traits that appear early in relationships. Identifyin
Rishabh Bhola
Dec 24, 2025


I Am in a Sexless Marriage Because My Husband Has ED. Should I Leave Him?
A sexless marriage caused by a husband’s erectile dysfunction does not automatically mean the relationship should end. Many young men experience psychogenic erectile dysfunction, which is driven by anxiety, stress, porn-related conditioning, or emotional blocks rather than physical damage. Identifying the true cause of ED is essential before making life-altering decisions. When ED is age-related or permanent, couples can maintain intimacy by redefining sexual connection beyon
Rishabh Bhola
Dec 20, 2025


Husband Never Initiates Sex. What Is Going On?
When a husband never initiates sex, it is most often linked to psychological factors such as performance anxiety, fear of rejection, stress, low sexual confidence, or conditioned avoidance rather than lack of attraction or love. Initiation requires vulnerability, and when the brain associates intimacy with anxiety instead of safety, avoidance becomes protective. Addressing emotional safety, reducing pressure, and resolving psychological blocks through psychosexual therapy can
Rishabh Bhola
Dec 13, 2025


Sex Therapy for Mental Block ED
Mental block erectile dysfunction is a psychological form of ED where erections fail due to anxiety, fear, overthinking, or conditioned responses despite normal physical function. Sex therapy is an effective treatment because it targets the cognitive, emotional, and nervous system factors that suppress arousal. By reducing performance anxiety, addressing porn-related conditioning, and restoring mind-body balance, psychosexual therapy helps men regain natural erections without
Rishabh Bhola
Dec 10, 2025


Side Effects of Penis Rings and Why Young Men Should Not Use Them
Penis rings or cock rings are often marketed as harmless accessories that improve erections or sexual performance. On social media and adult platforms, they are increasingly promoted to young men as a shortcut to stronger erections or longer-lasting sex. What is rarely discussed is that penis rings can carry real risks, especially for young men who do not have erectile dysfunction. For many users, the decision to try a penis ring is driven by anxiety, curiosity, or comparison
Rishabh Bhola
Dec 9, 2025


I Am Not Getting Morning Erections. Does That Mean ED?
Noticing the absence of morning erections can feel alarming. For many men, morning erections are seen as a sign that everything is working normally. When they disappear, the immediate fear is erectile dysfunction. The truth is more nuanced, and the answer is not always yes. Morning erections, medically called nocturnal penile tumescence, are influenced by a mix of neurological, hormonal, psychological, and lifestyle factors. Losing them does not automatically mean permanent o
Rishabh Bhola
Dec 8, 2025


How Effective Is Therapy for Performance Anxiety?
Across modern psychological research, clinical practice, and thousands of successful cases, therapy stands out as one of the most effective, long-lasting, and evidence-backed treatments . Unlike quick fixes or temporary hacks, therapy targets the root psychological mechanisms driving performance anxiety — fear of failure, past experiences, perfectionism, intrusive thoughts, and internalized pressure. Why Therapy Works So Well for Performance Anxiety 1. It rewires performance
Rishabh Bhola
Dec 6, 2025
