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Husband not interested in sex What to do

What should I do if my husband is not interested i sex?

Husband not interested in sex What to do

Dealing with a lack of interest in sex in a relationship can be challenging, but it's important to approach the issue with understanding and open communication. Here are some steps you can consider:

1. Open Communication:
- Start by having an honest and open conversation with your husband. Choose a comfortable and private setting to discuss your feelings.
- Avoid blaming or accusing language. Instead, express your concerns using "I" statements to avoid putting him on the defensive. For example, say, "I've noticed a decrease in our intimacy, and it's affecting me. Can we talk about it?"

2. Listen and Understand:
- Be open to hearing your husband's perspective. There may be underlying reasons for his decreased interest in sex that he hasn't communicated.
- Approach the conversation with empathy and a genuine desire to understand his feelings and concerns.

3. Rule Out Medical Issues:
- Changes in libido can sometimes be related to underlying health issues. Encourage your husband to see a doctor for a checkup to rule out any medical causes for his decreased interest in sex.

4. Stress and Lifestyle:
- High levels of stress, work pressure, or other life challenges can impact libido. Discuss any external factors that might be affecting both of you and try to find solutions together.

5. Counseling or Therapy:
- If the issue persists and communication alone doesn't resolve it, consider seeking professional help. A sex therapist or couples counselor can assist in addressing the underlying issues and improving communication.

6. Explore Together:
- Discover new ways to connect intimately that go beyond just sex. Focus on emotional intimacy, shared activities, and spending quality time together. Rediscovering each other's desires and preferences can be a positive step.

7. Be Patient:
- Changes take time, and it's essential to be patient with the process. Both partners need to be committed to working together to improve the situation.

You can always consult a psychosexologist to diagnose and give a natural solution to his low sex drive.
Remember, every relationship is unique, and the above suggestions are general guidelines. If the issue persists, professional guidance can provide personalized advice based on the specific dynamics of your relationship.

Rishabh Bhola is a psychosexologist who is an expert on all psychological sexual disorders. book an appointment to discuss your problems and questions. You can also book an online audio/video consultation appointment from WhatsApp! Click on the Whatsapp icon.

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