Movies are meant to entertain us, not educate us. Yet for many people, they quietly become one of the biggest influences on how they think intimacy should work. The problem starts when cinematic fantasy becomes the standard for real life. If someone asked you where you learned about sex, your first answer probably wouldn't be "movies." Most people would say friends, the internet, or maybe school. But think about how many romantic films you've watched over the years. Hundreds?