Articles By Psychosexologist Rishabh Bhola

Marriage is supposed to be exciting. A new home. A new relationship. More privacy. More intimacy. Yet for some newlyweds, the first few weeks of marriage bring an unexpected problem: sex starts feeling like a test. A husband may find himself thinking: “What if I can't get an erection?” “What if I lose it halfway?” “What if she thinks I don't find her attractive?” “What if I don't last long enough?” “What if it happens again tonight?” And once these thoughts begin, intimacy ca

Many men assume premature ejaculation is purely a physical problem. They start looking for exercises, supplements, medications, or techniques to help them last longer. But in a surprising number of cases, the real issue is anxiety. Some men notice they can last much longer during masturbation but ejaculate quickly during partnered sex. Others find that the problem only happens with a new partner or after one bad sexual experience. These patterns often point toward anxiety rat