If your partner becomes irritated, annoyed, or distant whenever you initiate sex, it can be deeply confusing and painful. You may start wondering, “Does my partner not find me attractive anymore?”, “Am I asking too often?”, or even “Does my partner still love me?” Sometimes, irritation in the bedroom has very little to do with physical attraction. A partner may pull away because they feel pressured, emotionally disconnected, stressed, uncomfortable with sex, worried about sex