It can feel deeply confusing to love your wife, enjoy being close to her, and still notice that your interest in sex has faded. Many men quietly worry this must mean something is wrong with the marriage. Often, that is not true. Love and sexual desire do not always move in perfect sync. A change in libido does not automatically mean a loss of attraction or a loss of love. Sometimes it means something is affecting desire beneath the surface. Love and Libido Are Not the Same Th